tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1246675223518182656.post3947056459490452568..comments2023-09-15T09:49:56.608-04:00Comments on Climaxed: To Say Or Not To SayJenniy Frenchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04902332589392779881noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1246675223518182656.post-56522378815379996122019-11-12T20:43:44.500-05:002019-11-12T20:43:44.500-05:00I never realized this is exactly what I needed to ...I never realized this is exactly what I needed to hear until I read it, and I can't thank you enough. Just venting really helped, but this comment really put things into perspective. Jenniy Frenchhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04902332589392779881noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1246675223518182656.post-58659309820438399972019-11-11T22:25:06.041-05:002019-11-11T22:25:06.041-05:00You said what he needs to hear. The fact that he ...You said what he needs to hear. The fact that he is not mature enough to hear it is on him, not you.messymimihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10649529601786689712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1246675223518182656.post-84977967271769971682019-11-11T14:55:54.005-05:002019-11-11T14:55:54.005-05:00It's so sad that his dad can't "man u...It's so sad that his dad can't "man up" to his wife and take care of his children. Treating him poorly and talking to him in that manner, then not paying his support and blaming his son for issues. It's a damn shame. I feel for you and your son. It really is a no win situation. But you can bet your sweet candy ass it would be when hell froze over before he'd get to visit my child without supervision. NO way I'd give him opportunity to belittle my child or make him feel bad. This guy has issues and is passing them on. Stand your ground. Protect your son. And turn the dead beat dad over for not paying or paying late all the time. That burns my biscuits!!Dawnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03215542444229937948noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1246675223518182656.post-62037161420966075992019-11-10T00:31:27.899-05:002019-11-10T00:31:27.899-05:00So sad on so many counts... Karen said it all... N...So sad on so many counts... Karen said it all... Not your fault & not your son's.Donna B. McNicolhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15209611782116113024noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1246675223518182656.post-71512096560108167122019-11-09T03:37:30.227-05:002019-11-09T03:37:30.227-05:00That is so sad. I am so sorry. All I can think is ...That is so sad. I am so sorry. All I can think is "four more years and Evan is 18". In the meantime continue to be his wonderful Mom. Nothing more you can do. Hang in there!Tamarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06945984135731336978noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1246675223518182656.post-3088973113435858822019-11-08T14:54:01.174-05:002019-11-08T14:54:01.174-05:00Boy that's a hard spot to be in. I remember my... Boy that's a hard spot to be in. I remember my step daughter's mother and I had so many issues because she was such a horrible mom. I often said things that I shouldn't but come one. You don't give your 14 year old daughter a fake id so she can go drinking with you or you don't buy her sexy thongs at 12. It was horrible and led to some massively bad decisions by my stepdaughter. Some parents just don't get it and it's such a shame for the kids because they didn't do any thing to deserve it. I'm sorry that you married a douche bag ( I did too with my first husband) and I'm sorry he couldn't' grow up and be the man your son needs him to be. If you want I'll go with you to kick his ass lol! (Rena)Renahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05275294618667341735noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1246675223518182656.post-30972966128311644972019-11-08T10:46:46.190-05:002019-11-08T10:46:46.190-05:00I'm glad you got that all out. And, honestly, ...I'm glad you got that all out. And, honestly, your son will too when he's good and ready. He knows his mom will be by his side no matter what and that's all you can do. You cannot change your ex-husband, you can let your son know that you too loved him once but had to make an adjustment in your circumstances that was a reflection of your strength, of knowing you deserve better. That wasn't your fault and this isn't your son's fault.Karen @BakingInATornado.comhttps://bakinginatornado.comnoreply@blogger.com